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Surround Yourself
With Positivity

They say you’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with. So, choose wisely. Surround yourself with people who uplift and inspire you. Ditch toxic relationships that chip away at your self-worth. Your social circle should feel like a VIP section, not a pity party.

Fake It
’Til You Make It

This isn’t about being disingenuous. Or even lying. It’s simply about practicing confidence until it feels natural. Nervous about a presentation? Smile, make eye contact, and speak clearly. Eventually, these actions won’t feel forced—they’ll become second nature.

Develop a
Growth Mindset

Confidence grows when you see yourself as a work in progress. Embrace challenges, learn from your failures, and focus on personal development. Read books, watch TED Talks, or start practicing a skill you’ve always admired. The more capable you feel, the more confident you’ll become.

Take Care of
Your Body

You can’t feel good if you’re running on junk food, energy drinks and four hours of sleep. Exercise regularly, eat nutritious meals and prioritize rest. Physical health and mental health are a package deal, and when you’re at your best physically, your confidence gets a natural boost. Plus, the American Psychological Association has noted through studies that working out regularly requires a commitment and by maintaining that commitment, you recognize it as an important accomplishment.

Own Your Story

Confidence isn’t about perfection; it’s about authenticity. Everyone has flaws, quirks, and scars—and that’s what makes you unique. Try to focus less on others and embrace your story, own your journey, and recognize that your imperfections are part of what makes you the guy people are now counting on.